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Going Through Divorce

Going through a divorce can feel like a full-time job on top of your actual life. From filing paperwork to dividing assets to figuring out custody, every step raises new questions. Our guides break the process into manageable stages so you always know what to expect next — and how to protect yourself along the way.

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Who Gets the House in a Divorce?

Keeping or Selling the House in Divorce: What You Need to Know
July 8, 2026

How Long Does Divorce Take? Timelines by State and Type

From Filing to Finalization: Navigating the Factors That Extend or Expedite Divorce
July 8, 2026

First Divorce Hearing: What to Expect

A Step-by-Step Guide to Navigating Your Initial Divorce Court Appearance
July 8, 2026
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Understanding No-Fault vs. Fault-Based Divorce

One doesn't require proving wrongdoing. The other does. Here's how to choose the right path for your divorce.
July 8, 2026
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How to Tell Kids About Divorce: Age-by-Age Guide

A parent's guide to preparing for, having, and following up on the conversation that changes everything
July 8, 2026
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Divorce Mediation vs. Litigation: Which Path Is Right for You?

One path is faster and cheaper. The other protects you better when conflict runs high. Here's how to choose between mediation and litigation.
July 8, 2026
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A Divorce Planning Guide To Help You Prepare For The Road Ahead

Preparing for divorce doesn't have to mean doing it all at once. Here's what actually matters and how to get ready, step by step.
July 8, 2026

Custody Arrangements: What Parents Need to Know

Legal vs. physical custody, parenting plans, and what courts actually consider.
April 14, 2026

Dividing Marital Assets Without a Court Battle

Mediation, the kitchen-table method, and when each works.
April 14, 2026

How to File for Divorce: A Step-by-Step Walkthrough

From petition to first hearing, with no legal jargon.
July 8, 2026

The 30-Day Divorce Financial Preparation Plan

A week-by-week playbook for protecting your finances before, during, and after filing.
July 8, 2026

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Common Questions

How long does divorce planning take?

This varies depending on the complexity of your financial circumstances. In straightforward cases it may take a matter of weeks; in more complex situations, it can extend to several months. For a clearer picture of the full process, see DivorceHub's guide on how to file for divorce.

Do I need a lawyer before I file?

While it is not always a legal requirement, seeking early legal advice can help you avoid costly mistakes. You can also find state-specific resources to understand the legal landscape where you live.

When should I start divorce planning?

Ideally, you should start as soon as separation is being considered, even before any formal conversations have taken place.

What is divorce planning?

Divorce planning involves getting your financial, legal and emotional affairs in order before filing for divorce. DivorceHub's Thinking About Divorce section is a good starting point if you're in the early stages.

Does it matter who paid the mortgage during the marriage?

In most cases, no. Whether one spouse owned the home before filing is not the only issue, because this often turns on whether the home is considered marital property or separate property. Courts also recognize non-financial contributions (like homemaking, childcare, and supporting a spouse's career) as equally valuable, and they may also look at marital funds used to pay the mortgage or improve the home. The exception is if the home was purchased before the marriage or with inherited funds and kept entirely separate from marital finances, although appreciation during the marriage and commingling can affect whether it remains non marital property.